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  Please vote on new cookbook cover - UPDATED - 6 COVERS

  by Lady Lee in

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  thanks to simon and his nifty new image attachments i got these ready.

  please let me know which one you prefer.

  and i have already made matching banner ads for the site (saves simon having to do it.

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  I like the first one. I love presents
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  I got a job!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :D :D :D

  by Elsewhere in

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  i just recieved an email from a company that i interviewed with last week and was told that i was selected as the candidate they want to hire!

  they will be sending me a formal job offer monday.

  i have been doing contract/consulting work for about four years and i am soooooo tired of it.

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  Congrats Elsewhere,

  We know how booooooooooooooooooooooooooooooored you've been lately.
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  What a Deal !!!! (OT)

  by Bendrr in

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  i'm so happy!

  my older brother called me a couple of weeks ago with some good news.

  see, i've been looking for another transmission for my camaro and he had just what i wanted.

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  Ahhhhhhhhhhhhh, the good old days when car engines only had 3 moving parts and a coffee can. Lots of room to work on them. I have a 93 chevy lumina that has to go to the shop just to change the battery. There is so much junk under the hook half of it needs to come out to replace anything. My dream car is a 1965 cherry red mustang.
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  Looking for Birth Parents

  by meadow77 in

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  i myself was not adopted, however my husband's mother was.

  she passed away seven years ago and both of her adoptive parents are gone now as well.

  i have always been interested in finding more about her birth family for a couple of reasons.

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  Meadow,

  I found my dad after 40 years. It does take alot of work sometimes. If I were you I would start by talking to your husbands oldest closest adoptive relatives. Usually they will have some of the story and may be able to start you in the right direction. They usually know things that have been old family secrets.

  Get a date of birth, where she was born, any info what so ever. Your work will be cut out for you. Was she adopted as a baby or older child? It could be all sorts of things. She could have been adopted within the family. The family may have been large and poor, not able to feed another mouth. It could have been incest, rape, affair and swept under the carpet quietly. She may have been secretly born at home and given away with little record of birthfamily. A lot of births were at home back then. See if there were orphanages in the area.

  It will help to get an idea of the town and practices in the year of her birth. If you would like to give what info you have, there are alot of people here that like alittle challenge and could maybe help you search. Good luck. I know how good it feels to finish the puzzle.
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  Denial lurking

  by oredigger in

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  good evening all,.

  i'm ashamed to say i have lurked here for a couple of years without having the courage to jump in.. the insight i have found in these posts has done much to heal the broken hearted.. there is no one that can truly understand this particular experience this without living it.. i was raised in the lower mainland of bc., i will share my own experience as courage will alow.. sincere thanks to all of you for helping me to heal and understand that i am not all by myself.

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  Welcome Oredigger,

  Thanks for stopping by. Come again soon.
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  Every cloud has a silver lining

  by Elsewhere in

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  the last few days here in the dallas / fort worth area have been very stormy... some of the heaviest rain i've seen for quite some time.

  yesterday's dallas morning news had a great pic of what was left after a storm blew through... .

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  Elsewhere that is beautiful, I love rainbows.

  What is the building that looks like a black kite on far left of the picture. Offices? How do they get the people squished in the top? Just curious.
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  do you go bonkers over your older childer?

  by orangefatcat in

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  the reason i ask this question is because today my 24 yr old son had a bench warrant issued against him.

  why you say, because he didn't know how to say no to drugs.

  he got caught with enough drugs to be charged with possesion and with the possiblity of trafficing.

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  Sorry to hear about your son OFC.

  Kids do have a way with making poor decisions alot of times. Learning to make better choices comes from paying the price of making bad ones. He is your son and you love him but don't go crazy trying to fix his life, as a 24 yr old adult he is in control of how hard or easy he wants to make it by the choices HE makes.

  You are giving him the most love by letting him squirm abit (hard as it maybe), for he will (hopefully) learn that the choices he is making have consequences that he does not like. HE chose not to use the $500 for the lawyer and it made his situation worse. You did your part, HE didn't do his so he is paying for that choice. As a parent it is hard to watch them keep slamming against that wall. But the more pillows you throw out to sofen the blows the longer he can keep doing it. If you have to pay money again you might want to leave out the middle man (your son).

  Good luck OFC, they do grow up (sometime)

  I just had to laugh at this.............................Sorry

  Can you imagine that? This happened to him over a year ago and he has had to have regular blood tests to prove he has no blood in his system.
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  has anybody heard from larc?

  by DanTheMan in

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  i emailed him a few days ago, no response.. he hasn't posted here since july.

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  I was wondering about Mimilly. Anyone heard from her? or Queeny
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  JWD Maps Europe

  by Lady Lee in

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  and one for the folks in europe.

  i know you're out there.. please post the country you are in.

  i will do my best to get you as close to where you live as possible - well in the same country.. as you can see we have a ways to go.

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  My goodness...............is there anyone left at the KH in Greater Manchester? When Simon left, they all left.

  Thats alot of hard work Lady Lee. Thank you.
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  I'm back, and survived the plane flight!!

  by ScoobySnax in

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  just got back from corfu today, naturally looking like a bronzed adonis.. even the plane flight wasn't as bad as i thought, even though it was a bit bumpy on the ride home.

  hired a car and saw some of the island, beautiful scenery, sandy beaches, secluded coves, olive groves and historical monuments.

  the greeks are such fantastically warm and friendly.

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  Been there

  Rayzorblade said......

  You, a bronze Adonis? PICTURES PLEASE!!!!

  Scooby.......go away again.

  The way Rayzor has been talkin about Aztec I thought we almost had him converted.

  Oh well, back to the drawing board.